Your wedding isn’t just another ceremony—it’s your story. Whether you're eloping or throwing a party with a select group of your favorite humans in the world, the ritual of saying “I do” should feel real, personal, and you. I’m here for the couples who appreciate a good Parks and Rec reference, who would gush over hearing a lyric from their song laced into the ceremony - but mostly, for the couples who dare to break tradition and tie the knot their own way.
I specialize in crafting and officiating unique wedding ceremonies for fun-loving couples who long for the adventure of a destination elopement, or the crazy-cool intimacy of a microwedding.
I primarily serve Northwest Montana and the Glacier National Park area, but I'm down to travel with you anywhere! And, if you're wondering if I'm queer-friendly? The short and simple is: hell yes. I want to celebrate ALL OF THE LOVE.
Let’s create a ceremony experience that’s as unforgettable as your love story - one that makes you laugh, smile, and maybe even shed a tear.
Therapist by day, wedding officiant by night—I’m your go-to-gal for all things love and relationships.
Based in beautiful Northwest Montana, I’m passionate about creating moments that celebrate real connection, joy, and authenticity. With experience working with hundreds of couples, I help you navigate everything from avoiding wedding planning chaos to building a foundation for lifelong love.
When I’m not officiating or in therapist-mode, you’ll find me curled up with a book, hanging with my boys, or bobbing my head to my favorite punk rock or hip hop jams.
Let’s chat if you’re looking for a wedding officiant who brings heart, humor, and the perfect balance of fun and a down-to-earth vibe to your big day!
I craft unforgettable ceremonies for love stories like yours, giving you a roadmap for marriage that covers where you've been, and perhaps more importantly, where you're going. Think of it as a mix of heartfelt moments, a few good laughs, and a ceremony that actually feels like you."
Not just because it's cheaper and less painful than therapy or divorce, but because you deserve to start married life off with a solid foundation, equipped with the tools to navigate challenges and grow together. Plus, let’s be real—love is amazing, but a little expert guidance never hurt anyone!
So you want your best friend, uncle, or sister to marry you, but want to make sure they don’t totally bungle it up? I offer officiant coaching to provide the tools and support to make sure they feel confident and prepared. Because ‘winging it’ is great for karaoke, but maybe not for your wedding ceremony!
"Kate listened to our wishes for what we wanted to include in our ceremony, from readings and poetry to our vows. The questionnaire she provided us to us ahead of time on what lies at the root of relationship and marriage for both of us separately served to guide and cement our writing on how we feel about one another. Our answers are mementos of the experience leading up to our ceremony as well as influencing our vows. She is authentic, funny, has a smile that lights up Montana no kidding, and we felt privileged to have her marry us. "
“Our day was unlike anything we could have ever dreamed of. It was unique and made just for us, no one will have the same ceremony. Kate spent time getting to know us on a personal level with a facetime interview which left us feeling like we gained a new friend. She wrote our ceremony with such perfection and feeling.”
"Kate was our officiant for the ceremony and to say she has a way with words does not do her justice. When I tell people about our wedding, the words after "it was perfect" are: "our officiant did an amazing job and the wedding was so 'us'! She picked up the tiniest of details during our conversation and weaved them into the ceremony in such a beautiful way. To be honest, we were a little nervous about an hour call scheduled with a complete stranger, but Kate is a pro and the hour flew by. When we finally met, things were super relaxed."